Showing posts with label Mormons. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Mormons. Show all posts

Saturday, August 7, 2010

Mormons and My Epic Struggle Not to Avoid Them

To escape my usual response to rain - which is to take the excuse to read all day and never leave the house - I took a proactive stance and decided to take my computer to a local cafe and correspond with the world from there. I ended up at McDonalds - what can I say, I go where ever the wi-fi takes me.

And who should I run into but Suji's very own Mormon missionaries, Elders Rogers and Heyfield. Now, I've had interactions with them before. The first time, I ignored them at a bus stop. The second, I actually greeted them on the street. The last time I saw them (Suji is really not that big) I was at this same McDonalds and Elder Rogers - who saw me trying to communicate my desire for chicken tenders to the uncomprehending girl behind the counter - jumped in to help me. This was back when Ne-hyeung was still trying to convert me to her church so I can't say I was too nice to them. The fact that they were both very charismatic - possibly something they learned in order to go on their mission - didn't help. I was sick and tired of people being nice to me just so they can convert me and I got the heck out of there as fast as was humanly possible.

Today, though, I saw them before they saw me and I thought of it as an opportunity to mend some fences. I know not all missionaries are bad people - I know quite a few who are great people, in fact. And I've known at least one Mormon who was a genuinely decent person (though I've known several more who were pretty unhinged). So, in the name of a functioning ex-pat society, I picked a table close to them and started a conversation. It was pretty great, actually, because they both seemed to fall in the non-crazy spectrum of the religion. They both loved traveling and one had worked in Alaska with a tour company - something I had been thinking about. They left before I did but not before recommending a nearby Mexican restaurant that is supposed to be great. All in all, I learned something about stereotypes and prejudices. And when I figure out what that something is, I'll let you know.